21 de julio de 2011
20 de junio de 2011
Manners
In the next few minutes we’re going to be talking about modern manners. It’s an argument that, on the face of it, has been going on between the generations, for hundreds of generations. Older people can often be heard saying the youth of today lack the basics in good behaviour and with newspapers and the media focusing on the anti-social activities of a minority of young people, it’s easy for them to be branded with a negative stereotype. So are British manners really getting worse? Our reporter Mark went to find out. Listen to the report by clicking here (you can download it)
Well, I’ve come to a typical UK high street on a weekday to talk to the young mums and dads, business people, elderly people and students that are out doing their shopping. So we should get an interesting mix of views. Let’s go see what people think.
-Excuse me, sir, would you say that manners are getting better or worse in the UK?
"I actually think they’re getting worse. I think that the standards are declining generally. "
"I think they are getting worse but not terribly so."
"Generally in buses and trains I think that people’s manners have improved in many ways."
"There are cultural differences, so you might meet someone from a different culture and your set of manners will quite be different to theirs."
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Well, is it all a question of individual taste or is there some common ground? With me here is Simon Fanshawe, author of a book called ‘The Done Thing’, all about modern British manners.
-Simon, what are the basic dos and don’ts?
-I think one of the things that’s confusing for people is when they come here is there appear to be hundreds and hundreds of rules, hundreds of things you should and shouldn’t do. And the truth of it is that most of them are about class. And lots of them are trip-wires actually for people who don’t know them.
So what I tried to do in my book was take it back to some sort of first principle and say look – there are anthropological reasons why we have certain kinds of manners. So I’ll give you a very good example, in Britain there are sort of two ways of holding a knife, very broadly. And broadly speaking the middle-classes hold it with the index finger on the top, gripped in the hand. And working-class people hold it like a pen. Entirely a class distinction and people mercilessly exploit it if they want to. The truth of it is, the one way not to hold a knife at the table, is clasped in your fist, raised as if to kill your guest. And what does that tell us about eating? Well, what it tells us about eating is two things: it's never confuse your guests with either the food or the enemy. Don’t eat them and don’t kill them!That’s about how you should hold your knife, because actually manners are really about the reduction of violence. There’s a lot in there about reducing violence. So that’s just an illustration of what one tries to do so actually when you look at real table manners they’re about people feeling comfortable with each other, sharing food around a table. Very important human thing.
-And are things actually getting worse?
-Very broadly speaking, we all rub along together pretty well, actually, we don’t do so badly. The trouble with bad manners is that when you experience it, it completely occupies your field of vision. So you feel completely knocked back and rather hurt by somebody.
-Should foreigners, say, comply with British manners when in Britain or should they just be themselves?
-Well I think, one, they should be very gentle with us because we’re not terribly good at understanding that there are lots of different customs from round the world, so you know, be gentle. But I think the thing what I would say to anybody going to any other culture, any other country in the world: Number one – be curious, ask yourself. The other thing is don’t think there’s a right and a wrong way to do things in terms of little funny details. Always remember that fundamentals matter more than anything else. ‘Please’ and ‘Thank You’ is a gift and a grace in any language so treat people in the fundamental purpose of manners which is to make life easier. If I can give you a definition of manners, it is it the reduction of actual or potential violence between strangers. So always seek to defuse conflict, always seek to reach out and offer yourself to other people, always seek to open the door and let them through. Do those kind of things because actually you’ll find people love it and they’ll respond to you.
-Simon Fanshawe, it would be very bad manners of me not to say, ‘thank you’ for coming to talk to us.
Falkland man chooses Argentine citizenship
A British man, born on the Falkland Islands has become the first person from there to chose Argentine citizenship.
James Peck was handed his national identity card by Argentine President Cristina Fernandez, during a ceremony to mark the 29th anniversary of the end of the Falklands War.
Peck's father fought for the British during the conflict.
26 de mayo de 2011
Identifying Sentence Problems
Identifying Sentence Problems
Click the answer button to see the answer.Find the Missing Word
Find the Missing Word
One word is missing in each sentence. Find this word, then click on the answer button to see the correct answer.
Find the Missing Word
One word is missing in each sentence. Find this word, then click on the answer button to see the correct answer.19 de mayo de 2011
Sister Act
This is the review presented on television a couple of days ago. Enjoy! And if you are planning a trip to New York or the UK, just do not miss it!
NY1 Theater Review: "Sister Act"
The story is innocuous. Set in the 70's, Deloris Van Cartier is an aspiring singer who happens to witness her thug boyfriend commit a murder. With her life in danger, she's sent by a cop to a convent where she's disguised as a nun. The devout Mother Superior is willing to go along with the plan until Deloris injects some soul into the pious choir. Of course Deloris' musical makeover is a big hit and, well, you know the rest.
Tongue-in-cheek nun stories are certainly nothing new, but this show's salvation is some very savvy producing. The songs by Alan Menken and Glenn Slater are clever variations on recognizable disco tunes from the era. They also help to quicken the show's pace by advancing the familiar plot.
The book by Cheri and Bill Steinkellner with additional material credited to Douglas Carter Beane features what sounded like a lot of Beane's trademark humor and brilliant zingers.
Veteran director Jerry Zaks is the perfect choice to helm this silly confection, balancing the fluff with sentiment. And he's got a great space in that giant stain-glassed church setting.
Casting is spot on as well. Everyone delivers. But best of all Patina Miller and Victoria Clark -- a delicious blend of sweet and sour. In Miller a star is born. She's Whoopi with a golden voice. And Clark's virtuosity keeps this lighter-than-air show happily down to earth.
As frothy entertainment, "Sister Act" gets our blessing. Just don't expect a religious experience.
15 de abril de 2011
Oliver Stone's Latin American Documentary
Stone has strong and favorable views about the leaders.
"They want to keep the resources of the country inside the country, and then take the profits from their own natural resources and they're putting them back into the people's causes, making better education, health, welfare. And that's quite a difference from before," said Stone.
Journalist Ashleigh Banfield doesn't think the mainstream U.S. media does a very good job of covering South America.
"When it comes to South American politics and South American issues, we just don't cover it as much as other places," she said. "I think we don't feel the threat that we do in other places of the world."
Foreign correspondent Bob Simon is shocked at the lack of coverage of South America.
"I don't think there is any news organization I know of that has a bureau south of Miami," Simon said.
"In their own countries, the press is after them. The press is owned by very small rich families that control the countries. In Brazil, they are after [President Luiz "Lula" da Silva] and Ecuador they are after [President Rafael] Correa, they are after [President Evo] Morales in Bolivia. These are rich, big countries. In Argentina they certainly want [President Cristina Fernandez de] Kirchner out and the U.S. does too. We're working behind the scene to get them out," said Stone. "But they are all democratically-elected, so we have to get them out the old-fashioned way, which is we have to by votes."
There was a small protest outside of the theater about the film.
"Why doesn't [Stone] make a movie about the people that have been killed or incarcerated by the Chavez regime," said one protester.
Stone, however, did not pay much attention to naysayers.
The last time I spoke to Stone, he was premiering another documentary, "Comandante," at the Sundance Film Festival. That movie was a series of interviews with former Cuban leader Fidel Castro in a movie called "Comandante." Now, Stone has spoken with Fidel's brother, Raul.
"South Of The Border" will be at the Angelika Film Center this weekend.